Connection.

Leading is being a positive influence. How is that? 

Look at your own group of friends. You probably have (as I do) some friends who are closer than others. It happens because you have more in common with these closer friends, such as same music taste, funny stories together and more. Now, try to think when your group is deciding about where to go in the weekend. You may have your own opinion but who will also influence that opinion? Your friends or your closest friends? You definitely will go where those who you feel more comfortable to be with will go.

What does this have to do with leadership?

Again, leading is being a positive influence. These friends are closer than the others because they deserve it. They trusted in you in the past in a way that the others did not. They supported you and were there for you when the others were not. And nowadays they really can influence you and the reverse is true.

Therefore, we can say that leadership is related to trust, supporting and connection.

I hope you guys liked the post. There are more examples and practical actions to come!